So, confession time today. Guys and gals...myself included...how many of you have a hidden box , closet, covered desk or other spot full of well intentioned unfinished projects? The reason I ask is because I spent the weekend tidying up my bedroom and cleaning up my spots of almost finished knitting projects.
Then I went in my hallway and there was a bunch of baskets of unfinished crafts, and beside those were well intentioned scrap books. (Really!! I am going to make that scrap book of our Disneyland trip one day!!) I have buckets of stamps and card making supplies, acrylic paints, brushes and and and I think you all get the idea.
I know I am forever after my husband to finish off those last few detail on our renovation projects all over the house like baseboards (which I have heard from many guys are over rated) but after looking over these little projects I thought to myself...wow...I procrastinate as much as he does. Shhh don't tell him that! He will never let me live that down!! Ha!!
And it got me to thinking...why do we do that? We all start out so excited! A brand new project. We get our information. Our supplies and maybe some wisdom from a few people who have done it before. If its a bigger project, we invest in a book or a class and then we jump right in. Oh the fun!! I love buying new yarn! Figuring out the pattern and what I want to see happen. I have several bags of 'one mitt attempts'. They aren't failures per say, because I know for the next one how I want to adjust them...I just kind of lose steam and say I will get back to it in a wee bit or right after this next project.
So after going through all of my stuff the other day, I came up with a few ideas on how to deal with all these projects laying all over. I figure this is not teaching my children anything about responsibility. They must look at all this stuff and think," well, it doesn't matter what you start because you never have to finish it!" This is not something I want them to think is true. So I figure I will do the most mature thing I can think of....
I am just going to get rid of it all. I am going to find a big giant pit, bring my guys and have them blow it all up!! BOOM!
I figure with the amount of stuff I have accumulated over the years I do not stand a chance of ever catching up. I know...some of you are shaking your heads and saying I am missing out on that wonderful feeling of accomplishment you feel when you have worked super hard at something and you see it through to the end. And you are absolutely right!! There is nothing more satisfying then holding that finished quilt in your hands, or soaking in that finished bathroom, or enjoying that first Bar B Q on that brand new deck.
But, at the end of the day, I know myself, my husband and my kids. We will always have half finished projects laying around. Some will actually get done! Most wont...but let me tell you...the day we blow up those unfinished projects will be the coolest day EVER!! And for those of you who know my family well, you know right after we blow those projects up, my hubby and I will relax curled up on a white couch just like this one while he strums away on his guitar and sings songs to me.....Ya right...he will be at the hard ware store looking for the next new project!!
Here's to all the unfinished projects out there!! To all of you who finish projects...you are a curious breed....you amaze me!! Come to my house and I will keep you busy for a while!! Enjoy your afternoons everyone! Chat soon!
LOL! Since ra I tend to not start projects and it is because of this very post. In my case it isn't procrastination as I tend to be type A driven but my ra and its recklessness to do what it wants, when it wants. And since I have such precious limited energy and limited joints left, I tend to throw myself into planning a short trip or getaway. And oh...those scrapbooks..I conquered that one (use to do them too) by going online to places like Shutterfly (my fav but not selling here) or one of the others like Kodak. It is a breeze to do them, you don't have to use scissors which doesn't go well with my puffy forever finger joints and I get to write away too. And the best part...it ain't laying around in any project corner unfinished. If it isn't finished it lingers out there in cyber space until I decide to finish it...one can save in process projects on Shutterfly. Have fun with your burning!
ReplyDeleteOh you are so smart!!!! Hide it in cyberspace instead of closet space!!!!! I bow to your brilliance! Heehee!! All kidding aside, that really is a great idea, I am book marking Shutterfly as I type...I have so many projects on the go, it seems to make me feel like I am contributing as long as I have something to do when I get up. Between trying to study, bake my doggie treats, work on my website, some knitting...or just day to day chores...makes me pretend I am sort of normal..even if the piles around me contradict that! ha!! Thanks for the idea and the smile!
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